Hats off to Regina Rossi Valentine!

"Co-parenting is a tough undertaking, even when your compatriot is a healthy, well-adjusted human. Co-parenting with a narcissist is a horse of a different color. A heartfelt, fierce, and formidable endeavor, Regina Rossi Valentine shares her raw and beautiful exposé with a boldly elegant voice. I Loved You More captures the essence of the suffering and the sturdiness that lies at the heart of the parent-child connection, offering the reader an empathically resonant appreciation of a mother’s abiding love as she navigates the craggy terrain of narcissistic abuse with heartache, courage, and commitment. This book is a must-have for your resource library!"

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"This book should be in every marriage and family therapist's office. Clients need to have a book of hope in their hands because currently there is nothing like this on the market." - Tanya Gore, MA, MFT

Excerpts From

I Loved You More

"But I prayed--I prayed harder than ever. And just before midnight, at 11:45 p.m., the guardian ad litem took the stand and said, 'Your Honor, I am about to do something I have never done in my entire career.'”

"He grabbed my shoulders. He put his face so close to mine I saw his nostrils flare and felt his hot breath. His eyes bulged and burned at me. He clenched his jaw. He was furious. He was a stranger. He shook me. In the blur, he raised a fist high in the air and my life flashed before my eyes."

'I am sure you would inform Gabriel of the legal issues that go on between his parents as you use him as a tool to make yourself look better. So, heed your own advice as things biting you back will haunt you, not me. When he is an adult and can think for himself, he will come to his own conclusions based on what he has experienced and lived in each of his homes. I have never involved him or put him in the middle as you have. He is a child and, unfortunately, a victim of your selfishness, yet I have never communicated anything negative about you or your negligence to him. That would be wrong. Can you say the same?'"

"After that practice I confronted Colby. 'Colby, you never even played football in college, let alone played quarterback. You just lied to all of them.'

The sides of his mouth curled up in a sneer and with a single cocked eyebrow he chuckled and said, 'Regina, it’s all in how you spin the story.'"

Regina Rossi


Singer, actress, and voiceover talent Regina Rossi lived a successful professional life in the public eye and now reveals her true account of the private struggles she endured over the course of two decades with a narcissistic husband.

As she says, "I was married to a severe narcissist and sociopath who made my life and my son's life a living hell. There was grooming; verbal, emotional, psychological, and physical abuse; pornography; and prostitutes. I made the choice when my son was 1 1/2 that he came first, and I would not put him in the middle. I prayed that one day when he was a man he would come to the truth about his dad on his own. He has. Our relationship has healed. We are closer than ever."

Written as an engaging and compelling narrative and documented from over 2 decades of journals, 22 personal letters to her son, over 900 emails and numerous legal rulings, I Loved You More is Regina's true story of struggle, endurance, survival, and ultimately, redemption and happiness for both her and her now-grown son. This inspiring, engaging, and compelling narrative gives hope, direction, and vision for anyone, male or female, navigating divorce with a child in the middle.

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