“I love what I have read. I can feel your pain. I see many parents who have walked in your shoes. Your book is especially insightful to me, as the majority of my law practice is guardian ad litem work. I think this book is a must read for any GAL. It really provides the prospective from your point of view of what it is to deal with a narcissist parent. There is no co-parenting with someone like that.
Your book is also a must-read for any parent fighting against a narcissistic parent for custody of their child. Your book is inspirational in that, with perseverance, a parent can eventually save their child. Your book allowed me to feel your struggle to save your son. I will be much more careful as a GAL to try and really get to know the underlying currents of a family dynamic when I am presented with your type of situation in the future. Congratulations! Well done!”
—Lisa Broccoletti, Attorney, Guardian Ad Litem
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“In all, I have no doubt that this is and has been a cathartic experience. I think my favorite part was when you came out the other side and praised your relationship with Rob. That reassures the reader that there is “light at the end of the tunnel.” Personally, I’m heartened that your relationship with Gabriel has not only survived, but grown richer and deeper as he saw his own truth. It seems that your sacrifice has been validated as he has elected to nurture that relationship on his own.”
—Robert Shirley, Supervisor of Secondary English Curriculum and Instruction (Former)
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“Regina, thank you for sharing your story with me. I'm so blown away by your bravery and resilience. I'm so grateful you are willing to share this story as I know without a doubt it will encourage so many people on this journey. It is so full of hope! Big hugs and congratulations on this amazing undertaking. This book shows so many ways narcissism presents itself in both covert and overt ways. You highlighted gaslighting which is something that can be very nuanced at times, and you highlighted the red flags. I hope this will encourage other people to discern and listen to their instincts and avoid all that you had to go through. I especially loved the letters you wrote to your son. This is something I encourage my clients to do when they are in similar situations. He is so lucky that he has this documentation and words of love from you to him.
This is a must-read if you or anyone you love has been impacted by a partner with narcissistic features. It cannot be overstated that this is one of the most difficult personality disorders to treat in terms of someone truly changing. This book is a cautionary tale of what it can look like to be in a relationship with someone like this. Regina's willingness to be raw, honest, and open about the struggle both she and her son went through is beyond brave. As a marriage and family therapist, I want my clients going through this to have this book in their hands to give them hope, to be patient, to trust the process, and that the self-sacrifice will be well worth it."
—Tanya Gore, Marriage & Family Therapist (MA, MFT)
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“You got into the real gut of the reason why you wrote this book from the very first sentence. I immediately felt like I was part of this journey with you. YOU are your child's advocate. Trust your gut. Mother's intuition is real. I have preached this to my own daughters for years. In other words, Hell no! Not THIS woman! The letters to Gabriel are a treasure and are your conduit to the readers. Mothers relate to this journaling and writing to your child. Many never get past the first two or three entries. Bravo to you and how perfect to also create a tangible timeline for you for this project. Great job on the book, but much more important is that you've created an outlet, a pipeline for women who need a roadmap to tapping into their lost confidence.”
—Linda Wilder Dyer, Author, Musician, Non-Profit Administrator
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“This is a beautifully told story—complete with heartfelt journal entries throughout the years—of one mother’s journey to raise her son well, in spite of seemingly insurmountable hurdles and heartache along the way. With her faith, determination, and perseverance, she navigates the murky waters of divorce, accomplishes her mission, and finds her self-worth, along with new love.
Although not the intended audience, I would highly recommend this book to singles also. Regina’s story just might help them detect major red flags, while they look past romantic feelings to gain knowledge and use discernment when considering a prospective mate."
                        —Sandra Holcombe, Writer/Editor, MFA, MA
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“I Loved You More is a true account of what it’s like living and raising a child with a narcissistic husband. This story will grab ahold of you, your heart will sink to your stomach at times, but then jump for joy at others. In this book many of Regina’s readers will find themselves relating to her in one way or another, which is a great strength as a writer in connecting to your audience. This is a must-read for individuals who have lived through abuse like this or are going through it right now. It eventually becomes a feel-good story for those who have made it through to the other side, and a bit of a guide or inspiration for those who are in the fight right now.”
—Nena Myers, Master Firefighter/Medic
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“Your steadfast resolve is impressive. It continues to be important to give voice to the deafening silence of victimization. This book demonstrates the ‘long game’ required to survive and persevere through the effects of being bound to someone with a personality disorder. A favorite part was learning about how the author’s personal story related to her current circumstances, and any points in which that self-reflection was authentic and meaningful. Your courage is exemplified by your willingness to share your story with transparency and detail, laying your soul bare.”
—Dr. Anne Michalek,
Old Dominion University, Associate Professor